Thursday, December 22, 2011

What we saw.....


Thank you for your prayers in answer to the urgent prayer request we sent out two days ago.
We saw so many horrors and tragedies in Cagayan that difficult even to think about
let alone describe but we believe that you would want to know and be a part of this.
So here is a partial account of what we saw, but the whole of it and the smell of it and the awfulness of it we cannot explain to you in full.
There are some pictures we want to share with you that we took 
ourselves – many more you can see on the internet.
But there were also things we saw that we could not photograph as it 
would be too horrific to show.

Our whole missionary experience did not prepare us for what we 
encountered on Monday and Tuesday.
Our inadequacy in the face of what we saw was huge as we are 
not aid workers and have not been exposed
before to tragedies of these huge dimensions.
 But knowing that this tragedy had taken place virtually at our back door
and that there were thousands of people needing help, 
we felt compelled to go and
help in any small way that we could. 

 This woman had lost 8 members of her family.
We sat outside the place where hundreds of bodies had been taken,
and we talked to her and to other people and listened to their stories, cried with them,
hugged them and gave money as we could to help with their needs. Some of the people
could not claim their dead as the flood waters had swept away everything they owned and
they had no money to pay for fees (about $70 per body or 3000 pesos) to redeem
them from the funeral parlors where they had been taken for preserving.
The stench of death was almost unbearable - there were so many bodies
that the funeral parlors were no longer able to preserve them. 
We sat on benches outside surrounding by weeping people,
people covering their noses because of the stench,
some were numb and bewildered,
some were collapsing in shock,
others were in agonizingly weeping and wailing.
Some had been staggering for hours from place to place going everywhere
that the dead bodies had been taken, searching through all the dead looking
for the bodies of their babies, their children, wives, husbands,
parents, grandparents......who had been torn away from their hands by the flood waters.    

This was the coffin of a 3 year old little girl, Chastie.
Her parents were still searching for their baby boy who had also been torn
from their arms by the raging flood waters. 
What you see in the picture is all they have left of their lives:
the sidewalk, their little girl’s dead body along with a few plastic
bags of clothes and food items and water handed to them by relief workers.

A bit further down the sidewalk from this spot was a young mother
sobbing in uncontrollable grief. I went to her and hugged her, and she motioned
to a nearby little coffin and showed me a picture of her
beautiful little six year old with bright eyes and a lovely smile.
“I tried to save her, “ the young mother wept, “but I was carrying my 5 month old
baby and the water was chest deep, the current was so strong and it ripped her out
of my hands. I saw the look on her face as she was pulled under-water
and I can’t stop thinking about how terrified she would have been 
and what she must have went
through as she was drowning. I can’t get it out of my mind, I can’t live with this pain.”

Nearby to that place where Jubab and I stood with this young mother in such pain
we could see bloated dead bodies, one of the bodies was unclaimed
and had been partially covered over with rubbish.
Another was the naked body of a young woman, with her hair matted
with mud, and her arms grotesquely twisted showing the agony of her death.
Others were being discovered by searching relatives who were weeping as they
gathered their dead in their arms.  

The next morning we went back only to find the crowds dispersed
and all the dead bodies we were told had been taken away to the garbage dump.
To us it was inconceivable but this is what happened.
Later we saw pictures of the dumped bodies in the local newspaper, the reporters said they
wept as they witnessed this event first hand.

We went to one of the schools that had been turned into an evacuation center
and saw multitudes of people huddled in family groups, without even a plate or a
spoon to their names as they had just escaped with their lives. We were able to help
some of them with needs they had – but started to get mobbed there so we left but our
hearts just ached for them: the man with a pregnant wife soon to give birth and their house
smashed by the flood and everything swept away, the mother with the asthmatic child
who needs medicine, the young wife who lost her husband and is left with a young child..........

The needs are overwhelming. We gave what we had could,
giving people 5000 pesos each (about $110)
which to put it into perspective over here, is enough
for a family to live on food-wise for about a month.
One of our friends in Cagayan even gave us money to give out which
went to helping 10 families.  

In the end we met three of the bible teachers from Lapoc, and they helped us
in giving out the last of the money we had left to give.
They went down to the river-side and walked up and down.
They saw scenes that moved them incredibly and countless people
in great need.
.
One lady they saw was washing a few little items of clothing in the river.
They asked her where her home was and she motioned
with her hand to the pile of rubbish nearby.
They asked her where she was going to sleep and she
showed them one piece of rusted metal roofing left that she slept under.
They gave her 5000 pesos and she started to cry and she said,
“Oh thank you, thank you!” They said, don’t thank us, it is not from us.
She said, “Who can I thank?”
They said, “It is from God.”


Wednesday, December 7, 2011

1st San Aquino Women's Conference


These are the faces of ladies enjoying fellowship
with other sisters in the Lord who they had never
met before this day! This photo was taken two days
ago on Monday, Dec. 5th, at our Women’s Conference
at San Aquino, attended by over 200 women
from 14 different churches!

Lola (in the white hat) can barely see and
she left her house at 3 am in the morning,
crawling at times in the dark on the trail
in the mud because she longed so much to
take part in this Women’s Conference and to
see for herself the women who are her sisters
and family for the whole of eternity.
It took 5 hours before Lola arrived at San
Aquino and I was hugged many times during the day
by this dear, beloved grandma and new sister
in the Lord!


An ice-breaker, “musical chairs”, was a huge hit – one lady
 from each of the 14 churches  represented at the conference.
The participant from the Tinongtongan church was the winner!
There were many joyous hugs of introduction, we had lots of
special music, spent time in the Word together,
we ate together, talked, cried, laughed and heard
wonderful testimonies!

You partner with us with your awesome support financially and prayerfully
and God keeps us here and meets our needs through your partnership, and
we thank Him so much for you!

But we must say, we have the better deal of the partnership  
because we get Lola’s hugs.

Wishing you were here to see the awesome things we see – but knowing
you will see them and they
will be your joy and crown at His coming.

“For who is our hope or joy or crown of exultation?
Is it not even you, in the presence of our Lord Jesus at His coming?”
1 Thessalonians 2:19

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Dancing!

Tala-Andig and Higaunon dancing is not just about choreography and traditional costumes but each dance tells a story.  
This dance is called the “Inidag”.
It is about the need to keep unity
because we are all one tribe.
One of the lines of their song goes: ‘Os gali, Tala-Andig kiw man’,
which is sort of the equivalent of: ‘Hey man, we’re all Tala-Andig remember.’
 Notice though that in spite of the exhortation to keep unity,
there is a need for armed military to attend these sorts of gatherings.
This dance is called the “Kaligà”.
It is about the fierceness of the Tala-Andig warrior.
In fact, part of this dance shows the
warrior capturing another man’s wife
to carry off to his own village.
Maybe it is these underlying parts of the culture that  
causes the need for military presence!  
This dance is called “Tagpangamuti” and this is
how our church conference in Cauyunan started
last week.
Originally it was a dance about stealing from
someone’s garden because you were hungry
but the ladies from the Cauyunan church danced
it with a new story, to show how we need to help
each other and when we see someone who is hungry,
to give them something to eat and to work hard so
that we have something to give.  

It was very cool to watch!  (No military presence
was needed at this dance!)