Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Last News About Aling Until We See Her Again

Aling’s body was laid to rest last Thursday after four days spent celebrating her life. Ronnie thanks everyone for their prayers which have been sustaining him and his family as they go through their new way of every-day life, carrying the aching pain with them of a loved one who can no longer be heard or touched or seen. They know she is with our Lord Jesus but the pain of separation will affect the rest of their lives until they meet again.

The support base that helped Ronnie and his family through this time has been huge. His four brothers came and were constantly by his side. Fellow church-leaders and brothers and sisters from many of the churches came to show their support and to share in the grief of Ronnie and his family: from San Aquino, from Anlagan, from Tinaytayan, even 30 fellow-believers including church leaders from the far-away churches of Cauyunan and Tumpagon.
In Lapoc, the coffin is kept in the family home until the burial, and every night many neighbours, family and friends come and spend long into the early morning hours with the bereaved family. Even more so with the believers in Jesus – they gathered together for four nights in a row, preaching the Gospel to the unsaved who were there amongst them, singing songs of praise and remembering Aling’s life.  Ronnie held his grandson Adrian, and joined his brothers and sisters in the Lord as they sang and he shared a beautiful testimony about his wife. He said that all through her sickness, he never once heard her complain and neither did her children. She didn’t ask ‘why me’ or fight against all the sickness and pain, but patiently accepted all that God had allowed in her life. She loved getting visitors and even in the midst of her worst pain she would greet them with a smile and ask them how their lives were doing. She talked to Ronnie about there being lots of people that still don’t know the Lord that he needs to take the Gospel to. In all the suffering, she kept her joy in the Lord.   
Last Thursday there were 500 people at her funeral. Rodil (our co-worker) preached and many unbelievers heard a strong and beautiful Gospel message that day as they prepared to take Aling (only her earthly body) on her final journey to the grave. Rhonnie Jhon, Aling’s eldest son who is newly married, gave a testimony which included this triumphant statement:  “This isn’t a day of tragedy but it is a day of victory for my Mum.”  The Gospel was the center of hope during the service that was held before they laid Aling’s body in the grave.  The frequent comment among the Lord’s people in Lapoc after the funeral was, “Maybe someone trusted Jesus today.”

Sorrows and trials come to all men but,  “Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.” James 1:12 

Monday, May 11, 2015

Our Sister Aling

Last night our beautiful sister Aling went to be with our Lord Jesus at 11:00 pm on Mother’s Day.

It is 11 months almost exactly to the day since Aling was in hospital and they got the news that her cancer was untreatable. These last 11 months are full of precious memories for Ronnie and her family and they passed as comfortably as could have been possible, a beautiful brother in the Lord who is a great Doctor, supplied medicine for her palliative care that kept her pain to a minimum. We saw her just 3 weeks and 2 days ago and she was still able to laugh, to eat, to cuddle her grandsons, to sit up, to change her own clothes, to talk to us……..God has been so wonderful to her and to us.

Before we left Lapoc three weeks ago, Ronnie asked us to please thank you for praying for him and for Aling. He testified that your prayers strengthened them greatly.

We praise Our Lord Jesus that He died for us and that He does everything for His glory. He is our blessed hope and our anchor.

1 Thessalonians 4:13–18 (ESV)
The Coming of the Lord
13 But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. 14 For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep. 15 For this we declare to you by a word from the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will not precede those who have fallen asleep. 16 For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. 17 Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord. 18 Therefore encourage one another with these words.

Amen!!!